and must be confronted, even in the face of state repression.
I am not sure anyone reads most of these blogs, much less if the people doing so are friends from places beyond Seattle, or new friends in the Seattle area, so I am going to try to establish some context first.
A terrible group, named Mayday USA (they have a website but I have no interest in directing traffic to them), planed a public attack on the existence of Trans people, in the most LGBQIA2S+ park and gathering space in Seattle. In their internal documents promoting the event (stuff available for looking at on their website), they use language like “taking to the streets to take back family in America,” and calling for “every man and women in America to stand with us” to defend family and attack “sex traffickers” who are trying to groom children. This kind of horrific bullshit is all over their website, their PR materials for their events and is very transparently aggressive and confrontational.
This group looks very similar/modeled around the Westboro Baptist Church, with the goal of going to places they know they are not welcome and trying to incite a response that they can then use to try to paint themselves as victims, lying directly to media saying things like “They say we don’t like people…We’re here to love Jesus” and performing stunts like giving away free haircuts (you know, to enforce essentialist ideas about gender), while really just picking cities and locations in those cities where they can get a bunch of attention, influence and money for themselves. Seriously, they wave their fundraising ability like a flag on the front page of their website, if you had any doubts about why they are doing what they are doing.
***This was my first read on the organizers and leadership that planned the event and I still think it is true, but I did receive word from folks that were at the protest that the majority of people that the Mayday people brought, a couple of hundred (more likely than the 500 reported in the Seattle Times), seemed like they were “true believers” who were there to “pray the gay away.” If they were being used by their organizations’ leadership, they were doing so pretty willingly. ***
So if this is essentially a charlatan con job looking for attention and the ability to cast themselves (and of course the innocent children being exposed to the idea that gender is not an essential trait bestowed upon humans by god) as victims, wouldn’t it be better to just ignore them?
This is the exact same question I have been hearing about confronting Klansmen, homophobes, Nazis, and other public spectacle hate-inciters for going on 30 years that I have been actively organizing to confront such groups, and while my answer has always been, “NO! We don’t ignore hate-mongering, we confront it.” I will try to talk through the complexity of why that is still the right answer without being dismissive to people who might disagree.
1. Being ignored doesn’t make hate-mongers go away, especially not professional/organized ones. Like the colonial invaders that came before them, the goal of these kinds of hate groups is to take up all the space that they can get their hands on. When streets/parks/etc are given up freely, they claim them proudly and make a show of trying to appear like their hate-speech and ideology is the “normal,” accepted rhetoric of that space/community, and that is what all the kids and bystanders see too. Sometimes they are also looking for confrontation, but only ever confrontation that they believe they can win, and in conditions where the smallest possible harms they might possible experience can be overblown for political exploitation. The “True believers” of these groups can absolutely be terrifying fanatics with no fear of death, but I have personally never seen that be the unified majority of any of these groups and the leadership is almost always scared pathetic losers that are trusting fully that the local police are going to be able to protect them successfully from the consequences of their own hatred. I think it can be a lot easier to believe that the overwhelming violence of the state will make the answer to that question be, “yes, the cops will be able to protect the leaders of these hate groups from the consequences of their rhetoric and actions,” than it is to imagine the circumstances in which we can make the answer “No, they will not.”
2. Some of us are not physically, emotionally, mentally, materially or socially in a subject position to step into the role of what we imagine to be “the confronters of hate-speech and hate-speakers.” That is a funny, maybe academically weird way to say something similar to “some people might not personally be ready, comfortable or able to take confronting hate groups in the streets”…but that is because it is supposed to mean more than that too. There are some tried and true tactics that have worked and continue to work to shut down hate groups, but those tactics have also failed in many situations to accomplish that goal, and those tactics can come with a lot of risk that will affect different people differently. It is getting really late for me and my mind is pretty scrambled, so I will come back to this point in the future, but I very intentionally want to talk about ways we can imagine resistance to violent and oppressive authoritarianism in the future.
3. I think pretty much every other argument people have tried to make about trying to “spread love instead of hate” or “we have to try to connect with the human on the other side instead of their hatred” really just boils down to people misunderstanding what groups like this are trying to accomplish, as well as making the mistake of using their imagination to pretend like the kinds of supportive mutual aid and community building that actually could have shut down a group like this can just be organized on the spot in response to events like “Transphobia and hate as religion instead of political philosophy,” and is not something that requires months (if not years) of horizontal power sharing, community building and dialog. Hence why trying to organize counter events to pull people away from these hate rallies always just ends up looking performative activism in service of the state or at least the status quo.
4. Even if, on a personal level, for some reason, I feel like a group is just trying to entrap me into doing something stupid that they plan on using as a catalyst for future rhetorical purposes or to sue the shit out of me (like what the Westboro Baptists turned into their whole economic strategy), the thing is, that personal perspective and understanding don’t change the reality on the ground of the other people in the path of the hate group. When young angry kids see nazis, klan, misogynists and transphobes coming into their protected spaces and spewing hate, the political posturing and con artistry behind it don’t matter any more. What matters is that you can either try to be the police, and force your probably convoluted and personal political reading on the situation on to everyone else around you, as a condition of your support…or you can not do that, and make your support for Trans youth, or any other group in the line of fire unconditional on how they respond to being targeted, and instead something they can count on and actually use.
I really want to write a whole lot more about the event, the police’s out of control violence in response to balloons and water bottles, what it is like to be on the front lines of events like this and what it is like to not be able to be on the front lines of this specific event, and how to build stronger movements that will protect our communities from the hate these groups bring in their hearts to hurl at us, our friends, our family, and our neighbors. But I am old and tired, and I want to post this before I let too much time go by and my words and actions of solitary, support and aid are just performative after thoughts.
People showed up in Seattle to protect Trans kids (young and old). They took a beating from a Seattle police force that just got permission again to use all their old protest smashing weapons they treat like toys, and 23 comrades and friends got arrested and will suffer continued harassment and intimidation from the state unless we make it clear to the city that we know who was really acting to protect our communities and who was acting as the hired goons of outside agitators who had come to town to spread their hate.
hint, this is not what a community protector looks like:
